Soft & Savage becoming her again: breakup healing poems and letters Paperback – January 1, 2026

This is not a polite breakup book.Soft & Savage: Becoming Her Again is a raw, healing companion for the woman walking out of a breakup, a toxic relationship, or emotional abuse, and the kind of love that slowly made her forget herself.Told through poems, honest letters, and soft but savage affirmations, Chyna Thi shares her story. The highs, the red flags, the gaslighting, the confusion, the “maybe it’ll change,” the final shatter, and the quiet, powerful work of choosing herself again.And while it’s her story, it’s written in a way that will feel like yours, because so many women have loved like this, stayed too long, and blamed themselves for someone else’s damage.This book is for you if:You’re healing from a breakup that still lives in your chest.You keep missing them, even though you know it wasn’t healthy.You’ve been manipulated, dismissed, or made to feel “too much.”You’re ready to stop romanticizing pain and start reclaiming your power.Inside you’ll find:Poems that put words to what you couldn’t explainLetters that help you release without going backAffirmations for boundaries, confidence, and self worthReminders to stay soft without ever betraying yourself againIf you’ve ever questioned your worth, begged for bare minimum, or tried to love someone into loving you back, this is your sign.Welcome back to you. Read more