No Roadmap to Starting Over: Finding Happiness In A New Beginning Paperback – January 3, 2026

Starting over can be scary, but it is not impossible. Once you release the fear of starting over, let go of what used to be, and focus on the journey ahead, everything else will fall into place. No matter how it may look in the process, you got this. I allowed my 15-year relationship to define who I was. I forgot the things I enjoyed doing as an individual and became so accustomed to the term “us” that it caused nothing but pain, confusion, depression, and heartache. The longer I stayed in that relationship, the more broken I became.I was like a shattered mirror with no glue to put the broken pieces back together. I realized I was with someone only for the title because after about 8 years into the relationship, our love for each other started to fade away, especially his love for me. Instead of leaving at that point, I stayed. I allowed all the mental, emotional, verbal, and physical abuse. A part of me stayed because I devoted so many years to that man and didn't want it to end without a fight. Another part of me stayed because I couldn't see life without him in it. I was afraid to live without him.Once I realized that I was fighting for my relationship alone and that I couldn't stay with someone who didn't bring me peace and happiness, I had to walk away. I had to put myself first. I had to find things that brought joy into my life, which included going to the gym, having self-date nights, and reading, among other things. During that process, I decided to date again, and that experience taught me a great deal about myself. It also allowed me to cherish being single and realize what I want and need from the next person who comes into my life. Here's my story of how I let go of fear and started my new journey, not only to singleness but also to happiness. I hope my story can motivate you to let go of fear, walk away from anything and anyone who doesn’t bring you peace, and embrace your new journey. The road may be scary, and you may stumble along the way, but don’t give up and keep going.Remember that your journey is your story! Read more